Why doesn't this girl talk to me anymore? I'll WORSHIP anyone who gives me the best answer!!!?

I knew this girl through a friend during summer. I didnt like her back then but we hung out more and I found out shes really straight edge like me, so I started to like her. We would text each other a lot and she said she missed me when I went to college, I'd go over to her house to see her, and she even wanted to go see a movie with me. But then in the middle of fall me and her best friend got in a fight and she stopped talking to me. but then her and her friend got over it and wanted to hang out with me again. Finally, after a while she slowly stopped texting me and messaging me, and she thinks I stalk her when I'm the kind of guy who goes to school, church, has a job and a band, and has a lot of friends. Its really fustrating to me, and I want to ask any other girls what my next move should be. I dont understand if its just mood swings or w/e. I understand If I should stop talking to her, but If I still do want to talk to her, what are my options?

For the record, the girl and her friend arent friends anymore. they hate each other. Im still friends with both of them, but for obvious reasons I dont hang out with them at the same time.

The best advice I can give is to talk to her about it. You will always have that woulda coulda feeling if you don't. If you are rejected, is it any worse than where you are right now? Life is to short to wonder what could have been. If you can't talk to her about this now what would have happened later if you had got together with her. The stalking thing? Ask her why she feels that way. If she still rejects you tell her you respect that and move on.

Most girls have a strong relationship w/ each other. "Chicks before Dicks" Dont seem to stalkerish. Girls hold grudges or show more loyalty to their friends than most people. Keep distant for now and just wait until things die down.

She's already said you stalk her so the more persistent you are the more she'll think you are a weirdo...sucks I know. But just leave her alone and move on!

i think that the fight with the best friend set it off for her. she had lost interest when things got messed up with you and her best friend. best friends is a thing that girls cherish any other friendship then follows. she didnt like you for what you did and she will continue on like that.

ok, why dont you try and speak to her in person, ask y she is not speaking to u, let her that u value the friendship, and you would like to know so that u can say sorry. Listen to what she h as to say, apologize and and slowly try to be her friend again. good luck my friend

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How often are you text messaging her? I stopped seeing a guy because he called me at least 4-5 times a day. She may be a planner, just make the date and I'll see and talk to you then.

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Have you ever heard guys say bros before hoes? Well, we say chicks before dicks, she may still have some anger towards you from the fight with her friend even if she seemed cool about it before.

My advice, wait about 2 or 3 weeks. Don't call, text or email, then send her a quick text that says "hi, some friends and I are going to [whatever] and we have an extra seat. want to come?" That will work especially well if one of her friends will be their too. You could try that one on one, but if she's called you a stalker playing it off and laughing about it in addition to giving her the comfort factor of a group hanging out will help ease you back into friendship mode.

Hope it helps!

Friends can influence a lot. Probably what happened was when she got into the fight with her best friend she might have told her a lot of stuff that got to her and made her have a change of heart. Especially best friends can definitely influence how we think, what we do, and even who we are with. Try to talk to her again if not just quit dwelling on the situation and move on.

what sort of fight did her and her best friend has? they probably fought about you :-) well girls like same guy sometimes and they did fight about it.. if this was the case then they realized they didn't want to sabotage their friendship for the sake of you so she thought it was best to slowly 'dissapear' from your life.. another option is the other girl badmouthed you to her so she stopped talking to you slowly.. but anyway, i think you better ask her directly..

Shes caught in a pinch and run between you and the other friend. She likes you but you are away at college and the friend is apparently still their. Her way of dealing with your leaving is to take the offensive and protect her feelings unconsciously by breaking off the friendship, she probably started to like you and the emotions bubbled up. The curve ball in this is that your other friend may not be 100% in your corner... build up the friendship with the mutual friend without talking about the girl you like and this could help bridge the gap to reconnecting with the girl. Do not talk about the past and what happened, too much drama. Just call her and say you were thinking about her and wanted to catch up all positive and upbeat... not often and don't text or e-mail... test the waters that way... so many girls at college i would explore my options anyways, don't get all into this one girl.