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I'm a married nurse.how do i handle job, man+friends? |
i work long shifts, often nights and weekends, my husband works 9-5. how can i keep a good attitude to working hard, loving my husband and spending good time with him, and still seeing other friends? I feel i time with my husband is so precious...but i don't want to end up doing all cooking, cleaning etc so we have time tog. any suggestions welcome. Just work out a signal......Who does what when including sex.... You guys should share household chores so that you both can savor the little time you do have together and try to see your friends when he's working so that when you have time together you really can be together. Also, you should try to plan a mini vacation every once and a while just for a weekend or something to have enough time together to really enjoy it without having to worry about work issues. organize a chart of time and chorse and see what you both can so when hes gone you can work on chours and vise versa for this to work you need to compromise, but so does he. It's what marriage is about partner-ship! hire some help with housework& etc Tough isn't it? Does he get into helping you 'round the house? Can you work out a "deal" under which you divide up household chores--a kind of schedule that just HAPPENS to leave a good deal of unscheduled time for whatever fun and games the two of you decide on? It might include deals such as if he does the vacuuming he gets a little "reward" of his choice or some such thing. good luck with that....if he doesn't contribute to the household chores then your issues are more than time-oreinted...discuss it frankly with him and see if he's willing to make his contribution....it's more than just him "helping" around the house, it's actually him making a contribution, holding up his end, so to speak (no pun intended, i know you're a nurse and maybe want to take his temp) :P try to find an hour together each and every day there is more to life than just work |
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