Shall i live abroad because my husband wants me to?

I have recently got married, my family, friends and job are here in England but my husband has his life abroad. He wants me to move there. What should i do? Can anyone think of a comprmise, if so please let me know. Thanx. :-(

It really does depend on what is most important to you. I can totally understand why it would be hard to give up your degree half way through, especially with it being the sort that you can't really continue.

It's very unfair of your husband to not tell you this before, but it's done now. You just have to make up your mind what would make you most happy. It is a big thing that he's asking of you, so really do just follow your heart.

Go with him.. long distance marriages don't work very well. If you really love him you will go. Maybe you guys can travel for half the year and have a permenant place for the rest of the year.
you could do half and half
like you visit him and he visit you.
do you feel like moving? yes- do it! no- don't! undecided? wait some time and think...good luck!
pack your bags or call a divorce attorney

you can get new friends and a job

you can always go back to England on breaks to visit
This is surely something you should have discussed before you married?

From your question I can only assume that when you married you thought you were both going to remain in the UK.

Why does your husband now want to return to his own country? Does he have a job in that country? Will you be able to find work in that country.

The fact that this was not all sorted before the wedding leads me to suspect that there are already serious communication problems between the two of you. There may even be trust issues as it would seem that your husband lied about his intentions of returning to his country.

If this is the case you need to think long and hard before agreeing to give up your life in this country, particularly as you appear to have as much to lose, if not more, by leaving as your partner has by staying.

Compromise is always possible. but one of you is going to have to give up more than the other (unless you have sufficient wealth to be able to maintain two homes in both countries and spend 6 months in each - as one of your concerns is giving up your job this seems unlikely).

Others have replied indicating that of course you should go with your husband, but why should you be the one to make the sacrifice? Surely your partner should equally be prepared to make the sacrifice and remain in this country, particularly as they did not bring this up earlier.

In the end only you can decide what is more important to you.
You go with your husband. "For better or Worse" right now you think is the worst. You need to visit your friends and family not your husband.