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My husband hates his job and it has affected our relationship at home.? |
Now he has quitted and found another job... abroad!!! thousands of miles away from here, and expect me to quit mine to join him and his new happy life. Should I trust him? i mean the previous job was supposed to be the last!! Is the new location somewhere where you have an interest in seeing? Is there going to be a language barrier? Do you have kids? Since you are married to him, I would try to be a little bit patient and at least go and visit this new place to see it for yourself. That would mean a lot to him I bet, and maybe put him a little more at ease....maybe it would lessen some of the stress if he felt like you and he were more of a team than as two people battling each other. Plus, if you go check out this new place..who knows?!? Maybe you will really like it and it could be a whole new beginning for your life! You never know unless you see it for yourself, and also, if things at home have been a bit stressful for awhile, this could be just "what the doctor ordered". You can look at it as an opportunity to "get away from it all" and be able to step outside the way things are from day to day. It could give you a refreshed perspective, and a renewed outlook on life.... Maybe things with the two of you could get a boost of good energy once you are both removed from the environment that was the place where so much stress and difficulty took place between you two (i.e. your home) I rent this cute little carriage house with a great garden and yard that I planted, but my ex and I have had so many fights here, that I am going to move soon, and find a new cute place to start over...because as much as I love this place and all the work I've put into making it special, it is also home to so many bad memories and sadness too.... So when the day comes to move, it will be bittersweet, but it will be undoubtedly good because i will forever be putting an end to a chapter in my life that had so much pain in it, even though there were some good times too. It will be good to just close this chapter once and for all. So who knows, maybe you and your husband can look at things like that- And you can look forward to starting anew and creating new happy memories in a new place. Good Luck! I hope this made you feel a little better! You need to talk this out with him. If you really like your job he should have talked to you before he made the desision to take this new job. Tell him how you feel. I would suggest talking to him about your objections. If he insists then join him, or leave if you feel that strongly about moving. Go with him. Wouldnt you do anything to help your marriage? Just because he said his other job would be the last shouldnt make you not trust him. Things change. Go be with your husband... Im sure he needs your love and support. |
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