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I鈥檓 an Indian 23 male. Presently working as an office boy in Abu Dhabi, UAE. As everybody I too had a lot of expectation about my life. I was a very good boy in my school days. I could pass my SSLC (10鈥橳h) exam in a first class mark. But by many a reason I couldn鈥檛 perform in my +2 (12鈥橳h) class. After my +2 I had a 2 to 3year鈥檚 break in my education. During that period I went in 2 an institute where I could learn Photography & Photoshop. Though I went 2 learn Photography I seemed 2 have interested in Photoshop. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U. But by that I could be an accomplished Photo designer with short cut keys (a good speed). I don鈥檛 know what I lacked 2 not continue in the field. Then for a while I joined in an institute 2 learn X-Ray welding. Though I finished the course I didn鈥檛 even asked for my certificate by the reason some one told me that I would not be able 2 get a related job in Gulf countries with out a minimum experience of 5 to 10 years. I didn鈥檛 even enquire whether it was true or not. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U. Within this time my mind longed too much 2 get higher education. Then after 3 years I went in 2 my +2 school 2 buy my Transfer certificate & related papers!! I started 2 study again for BA English Degree course. I wrote my 1鈥檚t year exam well & yet the result published. Soon I wrote the exam I saw the advertisement that my company (supplying office boys) published in a news paper. By my lack of looking before leap I fell in their sub contracting trap 2 a very small salary. Now I understand something that caused me 2 fail in my life ambitions. But yet I couldn鈥檛 get a clear picture. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U. But U can鈥檛 blame me for all this completely. Because for all this impatiently moving, I had a reason that due 2 the bad debits that my family has in various banks. We have 2 make huge money for the interest itself every year. So I wished 2 overcome all this problems all of a sudden by getting a job abroad. Any way now I learned a lesson that we can鈥檛 make money with out a good profession or well education. So now I wish 2 try once more in those fields. Now I have decided 2 leave my family in a crisis by selling our home instead of bearing those bad debits & interests (only for a small period-after I got a good job can鈥檛 I replant them 2 an own house from a rent house?) Here is I need Ur helps 2 lead me in 2 light. What I need 2 study now? Should I continue my BA? 2 tell U frankly now I have interest in neither education nor Photography & Photoshop but in computers. Before U answer me 2 the question that 鈥渃an I become a software engineer or even a computer operator鈥? U may need 2 know my stand in computers. I came 2 know about computers during my Photographical studies. Then itself I had too much interest in short cut keys. If so now I have a good speed 2 do any kind of program even without mouse. I mean that even though I see a program that I haven鈥檛 seen in my life before soon I will be able 2 understand this is this & that. By this interest itself I could learn a lot of short cut keys as well as Commands. Now what I鈥檓 telling U that I am able 2 operate a system & all the common programs like MS office, excel, etc without a mouse. I clearly know that these things only are not a qualification 2 be a software engineer. Then what I鈥檓 asking U that 鈥渄o U believe I鈥檓 able 2 be an s/ware eng? If so what should I do? Or do U see any other field suitable for me? Or should I continue the job that I鈥檓 in now & try 2 solve the bank debits with this small salary & help my parents 2 not desert in 2 a rent house? Hurry pls advise me, I don鈥檛 know any thing what I should do sorry for not answering but your question is too big. no one will read it full (except some) try asking to the person whom you know. Hi Buddy, Let me first say that you have to view your life from a wider perspective and stop making excuses. If you are going to continue working in UAE, you will be working as an office boy all thruoughout your life, which I assume is not what you want. You are only 23 years of age and you got your whole life ahead of you. Firstly you got to get hold of your life and stop listening to other people and jumping after whatever they say. Then you need to decide on which field of work you want to pursue in your life, a field which you enjoy doing. Now don't go back from that decision, do some research on it and study all about it. Then head your life in that direction. If you are good with Computer Applications, that makes you only good to be a Data/Computer Operator. To be a software engineer you need to develop on logical thinking to write programs. To be software engineer is real tough work. My personal advice: Quit your job in UAE and go back to India. Don't waste time and go to one of the metropolitan cities like Bangalore, Mumbai... (stay with a friend or in a hostel) and find a suitable training course, while you are at it do some part-time jobs (like sales jobs where you can improve your english & learn an additional language) also so that you can pay your fees. Once you are certified then get a job in that city and work for atleast 5 years in that city and then think of coming back to UAE. You are sure to get a good job coz of the experience. Think of marriage only after that. For any good job you need to have a graduate degree, see if it is possible to finish that BA degree. Whatever you do - you have to be working while you do it to support you parents. Since you already have experience in photography, it would be a nice idea to go into learning Computer tools like Adobe Photoshop, Flash... etc. If you insist on being a software engineer, then you go to a computer institute and study Oracle and get good at it. Good Luck |
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