I'm falling for a close family friend, whose already married. Help pls?

I am single(after almost 7yrs of commitment w/ch failed),Im catholic &hav been praying to god to let me find d right guy..
I met this guy.He's kind,gentleman and all.He's a family friend..I think that he likes me but knowing him made me sure that he's not the kind of guy that would hit on his friend's daughter(He's 30yrs old and close to my father because theyr in the same business)also,he's married.He texts me constantly,saying that he's lucky he got to know me.
Awhile ago,he visited me on my apartment.I let him in and we talked for a while.He became quiet &suddenly blurted out how he's falling for me and how hard it is to suppress how he feels.I knew that,I felt it.I also didnt want it to happen.He came close & hugged me,I didnt even stopped him.Its been years since I felt so secured.
He offered me a job abroad where he planned to go to.from the way he talked,he's so ready to be with me.And he's not like that..I think abt what happened today.I liked it.What should I do?

you need to get away from that right now. you have no right to be with him and share anything in his life. if you encourage someone to break promises and lie and sneak around behind a spouses back then guess what you just got involved with? someone that has learned great lessons that you taught him. so guess what will happen when hard times come to your relationship?

much worse is what does that say for you as a person that you dont respect any others love and what they have. whether that love is strong or not you by dong what you are doing and keeping this guy occupied so that he puts his energy into wanting to be with you instead of focusing on his wife.

Until he is divorced from his wife, you need to keep your distance, your only gonna get yourself hurt until that happens..im sure there are plenty of other men out there that you can find.
Yes its easy choosing playing with fire.
YOU are surely jumping in to the fire if he is not going to leave his family.

Make a choice that is good for all concerned.
Run Forrest, Run!!!!!!!
if he is serious about you he will leave his wife first and sort his head out then come to you.. don't acept it any other way or you will either be his new toy (cause his marriage has hit a rough patch) or your a rebound and you don;t want to be either. Men can go through phases in their life when they think they have fallen in love with someone else and 9 times out of ten they realize they do love their wives afterall and leave you mending a broken heart and run back to their wives n hear, it's not like they all mean to do it .. it just happnes,, men just don't think about long term conscuences like women do.. so think long and hard.. and if you really loved yourself you will wait for him to leave his wife then sort his head out before anyhting goes any further
i think you need to stay away from him he is married tell him you do like him but he is married and he needs to work things out with his wife i am married and i would want to try to work things out before leaveing my husband if things dont work and they get a divorce then it will be up to you but as long as he is married leave him alone
better stop and think. sometimes, in our quest for personal happiness we disregard the welfare of other people. sure, you'll get ur man and be happy. but what about the wife of this older man? worse, what about their kids? would you really be happy knowing that at the cost of ur happiness, somebody else is suffering? its not worth it!! someday soon, you'll find the right guy for you who make you feel secured, loved and respected. stay away from the married man. you are not helping things if you keep associating with him or if you keep entertaining him. pray that you'll be given a stronger resolution to stay away from him. good luck.