Confused about something i should take . boyfriend or job training abroad?

if i was selected as one of students which get chance to get job training overseas for 1 year. should i take that chance? becoz in other side, if i take the chance, maybe i will loose my boyfriend. actually he doesn't mind if i go. but he ever told me, that he can not promised to keep our relationship. i love him, it's hard for me to leave him. but sometimes, i think about the chance of job training. i want it too. becoz it's one of my great dream. if i wasn't selected it's easier for me. but what should i do if i was selected? becoz our lecturers said that if we are selected. we can not stand back.

If your boyfriend wouldn't wait for you then he isn't the one you are meant to be with. If its meant to be he'll wait a year. its not that long. I would take this once in a lifetime opportunity.

Go for it...If you are selected and your bf knows you want it, he should encourage you to be going. It would be selfish for him to keep you there. If your relationship is supposed to work, it will pass this test.

I know for a fact you should take the job training because..just think out side of love for a min..if you and your boyfriend break up 3mths from now you ll be so depressed...and asking your self how could you be so stupid?...so think about your future.." its better 2 be safe then sorry" i wish you the best"

Go for the job training. Such opportunity will not knock at your door too often. By going , you will be killing three birds with one stone - 1. Separation makes the heart grows fonder; 2. You may end up having a good career; 3. A job for you will make help make life easier for you and him.