Should I stay in my relationship or go? need help!?

When we met twoyears ago it was magic. I was an american only english speakig living in Singapore and he in paris. I thought i knew he my soulmate on that first day. But here is the situation today. I left singapore to settle with him in Switzerland we took a house together where he wanted while my work is on the other side of Swiss. I sacrifced that for our future and family together. i left my job in Singapore stayed employed with them in Swiss. needessto say, I dont havemuch work, dont speak french and because it turns out i am alone most of the time in Swiss while he is in paris I am really bored and lonely. I also moved my daughter who is 8 along with me. looking back i shouldnt have left my financial secure life in singapore without atleast a wedding ring and formal engagement but i did. now my company in Singapore wants to come back. my boyfriend loves me but is always complaining about my daughter and says that he likes his time alone in paris he is 42. what should i do?

go back to Singapore...make a good life for yourself and your dtr...he is just not that into you or your dtr...good luck

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i would really suggest you to go back to your country why is it you who has to leave every thing even your daughter and surety does he gives to take care of you go live your life let your daughter live a loving life with you if he really loves you he will be back to you else he was never yours
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I think you should give him an ultimatium. Either he spends more time with you in Swiss and gives you what you need otherwise you go back. I think actions speak louder than words, and if says he loves you, it doesn't mean much. He needs to show it.

I understand you ofcourse, must like him alot, therefore give him a chance and let him make a decision, either you or Paris. If he avoids answering or asks for time, then sister, He ain't into you that much!

Your better off in Singapore, if you never get to see him it doesn't matter if your in singapore or swiss. Atleast in Singapore you ll be independent.

By the way, I don't think he should be moaning about your daughter.. thats definetly minus points