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Anyone over 30 out there do either of your parents make you feel guilty still? |
or show signs of disaproval heck even sulk..When you make a decision that doesn't involve them about your own life...I live in England and have been offered a perfect job in Ireland doing something i'm passionate about which is working in the Equine industry...Instead of my mother been pleased for me that I could be happy she's thrown a wobbler and refuses to speak to me...Any sensible advice would be appreciated My father still calls me "boy". As for the job - life is not a dress rehearsal.Take the job or you will always regret it AND blame your parents. live your own life Dad tries, but I'm privvy to his tricks by now. YOU only have ONE life to live. LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST My husband's mother has the same hold on him. I'm a mother of a 21-year-old. He'll be graduating from college this year and likely heading off to another state. It's going to be very hard to see him go (he's forever 8 years old in my heart), but it's his time. Not mine. Go to Ireland and enjoy. Your mother will be just fine (and if not, you have no reason to feel guilty). You can stay in touch via email or even a webcam. So go! Congratulations on the job offer - I love Ireland and wish I could go with you!!!! Hell I'm 50 and still her kid in her mind.....I just do what I have to do and thats all........time heals all........I dont get guilty anymore......unfortunantely parents ( myself included) just want to be included but must also understand that inclusion sometimes leads to opinions that are not welcomed.....Congrats....do you homework before making that GIANT STEP.....you'll be ok.... Yeh, it's sad to say but your folks still will have a grudge about your choices in life due to their "not being there anymore" that's life, what are you gonna do? |
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