Oh so confused!!!?

Hi...as you can see I'm confused. Don't know what to do. I live in Ireland and I'm going out with someone I have a good job and anyone looking at me would think I'm sorted for life but I'm not.

I lived abroad for 2 years and was going out with a guy there for a year and a half and I still love him and want to be with him, but there's no life over there. Unemployment is high so the standard of living is not great. We speak often and e-mail each other and he still loves me but he won't move over to Ireland because he has his own restaurant over there.

I don't know what to do. The guy I'm seeing the past 5 months is great but I don't love him.

What should I do?

stop leading your boyfriend in Ireland off! you are in love with another man and he needs to know

to be honest you know the answer already, u only get 1 life, live it to the max hun, be happy , no regrets xxxxx
First off, finish gently with the guy you're dating now; it's not fair on him. Second, talk realistically to the guy you love. One of you needs to move to be with the other, only you two can decide who that will be. Good luck.
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oh just go and be with manuel or jose or whatever his name is have the guts to tell the poor mug you have been stringing along for the past 5 months and bugger off to where the waiter lives.
follow ur heart.. material things arent anything.. but love is everything.
Thats a tricky one, i think you should start with finishing your relationship with your current boyfriend as it's not fair to lead him on if you dont love him.
Tell the other guy exactly how you feel and if he feels the same then you need to decide how to make things work, you cant be in different countries permanently.
I lived in spain for over a year and there was no life their so i know where your coming from. If theres no way you can live in the same country then your best off just forgetin about him i'd advise you to stop contact with him this could be hard as you love him but will make it easier for each of you to get over each other.
your choice a life with him in a crappy place or a life in Ireland with someone else?

Good Luck!!