I am the girlfriend of the guy who just asked the question what should I do next?

he omitted to mention that I lived here illegally for four yrs and therefore could not teach- the job that is my passion and I worked so hard for four yrs to qualify as a teacher.He is also illegal here and therefore has not been back home in 7 yrs.He does however pay his taxes and contribute to the economy by buying trucks motorcycles and buying his supplies of local businesses.I know he could do well if he returned home as the economy is doing great in Ireland at the moment.He hasnt worked 7 yrs building up his business -it is 5 and a half years.I think he could use his experience form here to build up an even better life for us at home.When I was here I had no choice but to go out scrubbing other peoples houses in order to survive- that was my testimony of my love for him and I got so exhausted with it all I really felt I could not waste any more time of my career.What should we do
Do you think he should move home to be with me?

Hey Girl, I just responded to your mans ques. Now I find yours. I did mention to him that I didn't know your side. I'm glad I do now. Regardless if he wants to join you, YOU need to do whats right and 'healthy' for YOU!! If he's been "content" with you scrubbing peoples houses, putting aside a professional career, for him, it sounds like he's a selfish shmuck, and not worthy of you! Go back to beautiful Ireland, teach your heart out, and find a worthy, good man.I have heard a lot about Irelands prosperity lately. I have many Irish friends, and I say their school system is better than ours anyways! I'm of Irish heritage myself, so I'm more lenient toward "kin", but I have to say, as an American, who's struggled in business, to feed my children, no health ins., I kinda resent 'illegals' reaping ANY benefits until our own are sated. Good luck to you girl! Leave him behind, you can do better!

how fat are you ?
Well do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? If so than damn girl say yes. Why did you even ask that q? And yo M E A who do you think you are probably hurting that girls feelings like that
No he should stay away as you will bring him down.
if he realy loves you i think he should
I'm not sure were you are living but living in a country illegal is gonna cause you more problems then its worth. You obviously want to teach and you feel that it is your passion so I suggest you do it where you can do it legally and with out any problems. As for this guy I don't see why he still can't have his business and move back to Ireland. He can get a partner to take care of the business and go back periodically to check on it.
Crazybitc*, I love your name. I have no idea what his question was but by reading you question I can only say this. You did what you had to do to survive. God Bless you for that and I so wish you all the best that life has to offer. He needs to do what he needs to do to survive. It sounds like he needs to do what his heart is telling him to do. Unfortunately it's not where you are. If you feel like you can't live without him than move to where he is and stand by your man. Do what you have to do. I don't think people necessarily have to choose a career over a relationship but that's what ends up happening because both people are pulled in different directions. If this is where he has to be right now (regardless the reason), I don't think you can get him to go back. You can either come to him, wait for him, or move on. You are the one who needs to make a choice. I totally wish you both the best of luck!