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Should I worry or am I paraniod?


I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and things were going great until... I went to Germany for foreign exchange and was there for a month. While I was there he got a new job and says that he had little time ( bcause of his hours) to email me so they were always short. And then the one time we spoke on the phone he told me that he wants to join the military. Now that I am home things haven't seemed to get better. He's always late when we make plans or he forgets ( like tonight) and there's always an excuse.. which I for some reason believe. He's been getting home late from work and is always tired and stressed. Should I worry about him cheating, should I believe him and stand by him? I don't know what to think, I love him, truly. And I don't want to jump to conclusions or become the bitchy girlfriend. What should I do?

Give him a massage. I mean making decisions about going to war. And even getting a new job that is probably draining him dry is all very stressing and tiring for anyone. I mean if he has just gotten the job they have him on some hardcore probationary work or something. So make him dinner, give him a massage after a shower. Talk to him but not in a accusatory way. I'm sure when the time is right he will make it up to you. Just relax and breathe.

rub his shoulders and calmly try to talk to him about it. just try to keep as calm as you can, maybe he might say something

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