Who makes the first step in the US ?

The first step : date someone..
After: Who usually say "I love you" first ?
In France for example, normally girls shows "more" interested than men when they are interested in somenone. They dont hesitate to invite guys to go out !!
In others countries, this behaviour is interpreted like a behaviour of an "easy" girl, because in their minds, this is a "job" for men ..
What do you think about ?????

I know in some cases (high school) girls are very forthcoming and do a lot of work in the relationship even starting it. But strangely in some circumstances when you get older you are right it is still thought of as easy. Silly but it is.

I think it is an excuse for girls to make men do it because they are too nervous themselves. They act like men will be less nervous but really it is just an excuse.

i think the us should adopt this way of thinking, girls should be able to show intrest as well as guys and not be thought of as easy.

i can just agree with that...girls are just often too shy.it has nothing to do with a "job" for men.We just like to say that because we are too afraid of getting a no as an answer;-)!!!

I dont know about US....but that doesnt seem to be the whole of ur qsn.....
yep....people in other countries interpret that as an easy kindaa girl.....nothing can be done to that.
I always think one must be frank to xpress these things and stick to the same one-lol.....
or else, that girl or guy if called as an easy one, is not misinterupted!

I think French girls are more realistic, but American women are more repressed and therefore hungrier once you land them. The problem is, most American men aren't willing to go to France to meet a girl...they'd rather put up with what they know than to take a chance on finding less inhibited sex 9 hours away!