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A man who has no faith in his future decided to break up with his girl, should the girl wait for him? |
I've met a man who held a visa and just lost his job. He has until April to find another job. Everyday in this relationship we both were afraid to lose each other. So We restrained our feelings even though we like each other very much. He expressed how he felt about this, told me that he cannot committ to me now and he warned that he might be leaving for any opportunity that is opened to him (may be in Asia). But we decided to work things out at the end. However, my fear grew and i felt depressed. I told him i was very unhappy in this relationship, cus i don't know when this is going to end (it might be tomorrow). So, he decided to end this now for me. He said he does not have a house, a job and a citizen status. He cannot provide me with support financially. He wants to a relationship that work into a marriage, he wants to get married when he is 28, but he cannot now cus he has nothing. So, should i wait for him or move on? Cus i really like him (even though he breaks up w me)? Break up and move on... if he has no faith in his future,why do you? Give him space. Move on with your life. This does not mean you have to go out and date. Just move on and be happy with you. If your paths cross again, it was meant to be. If not, just enjoy the time that you had. He sounds like a decent guy. He knew he couldn't offer you anything solid right now, so ending it was the right thing to do. You should move on with your life in a positive way. If his life changes later, he can call you again if you're still single. If you really love him, you will set him free and if things get better he will return to love you. So he is being a man letting you know how he feels about not being able to provide for you. Respect his decision but remain plantoc friends with him only. You need to move on with your life. You deserve better. |
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