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I'm drowning in debt from trying to help my family during Hurricane Katrina. & my family kicked me up my... Now, I have to pay for what they took from me. I don't even know if I can go back to college because of my student loan situation. What if I can't go back to school? My income is low, & I'm disabled & can't work. Should I go teach in Asia if I can't get any more financial aid? I have a job opportunity there. Sounds like you've been doing a whole lot of giving and are about sucked dry. You need to replenish your reserves. Now is a time to rest and restore yourself. Forgive your family--at least learn from your experience and move on. Give yourself safe space from them with no guilt. There are so many avenues out there for you. Take time to sleep, cry, have peaceful moments to yourself. Surround yourself with loving people who can tell you true statements about yourself and your worth in the world. It's okay to pull away and care for yourself. Even Jesus took time to pray alone and restore himself after a long day of performing miracles and being "sucked" dry by those who needed around him. You are a good soul. You have sacrificed so much. You deserve a good life--disability, debt, or not. Doesn't matter. Get yourself back to "YOU" and you'll know where to find the answers to all your questions. go there if u feel it is right. if u need a shoulder i am here dogmicjoe@yahoo.com u r in a tough situation and think about do u think i t will be better to go to Asia and finish school or stay here, i can't really tell u nothing because i know it's hard to come from your home 2 a new place just follow your heart and it will lead u success ! Wow!! Where you're disabled and can't work, I'd say you have to do what you have to do. Is your family back on their feet? Can they help you? Can you move in with them so that you don't have to pay rent? It is my personal belief that bankruptcy is not an option, so if I were you, I'd start seriously considering that Asia option. Don't go overseas until you are better, as culture shock can cause a worsening of your condition. See http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 2. hmm...well, the first thing i advise you to do is calm down. u can't make any good decisions all hyped up in tears and emotions. i know, whenever i get overwhelmed, i like to make lists of things. so, maybe you should do that. get your ideas or potential solutions on paper in a list form. you'll feel a bit more empowered. this will be like a first step to solving your problem...then you should ask questions, do online research, talk to advisors at school...do anything to get knowledge of possibilities for you. allow yourself every choice possible, not just the asia thing. hope this helps you and gives you some comfort. God bless. |
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