My German boyfriend?

He is 7 years younger than me and we are living together in asia- he don't have job and i have a good job- he is dependent with my money and this seem to be a problem with my parents- he's not interested to work bec of a low paying job in my country- when i ask about marriage, he always say he dont know yet- he always called is parents back in east germany he seem to be very talkative when he talked in german sure, i cannot understand then. I am afraid i am getting old everyday i might miss the chance of meeting the rigth man for me since he is living with me in my country. Please help.

I'd be very suspicious. It sounds like he's taking advantage of you, honestly. Tell him to get a job - it doesn't pay less than nothing! If he doesn't start pulling his weight, maybe he should go back to Germany...

And furthermore, it has NOTHING to do with him being German. My fiance is German; he wouldn't just live off me like that, and he asked me to marry him long before I would have even expected it.

thats very weird coming from a german. German poeple are hard working. Perhaps he feels out of place in your country. Not in his own element...or,....you happen to hook up with one of the very few germans that are lazy. I say dump him and move on

Dump the guy. Who wants to marry a man that does not work. Place an ad in a dating service. I am sure you will find someone.

dump him, your wasting your time on him

Be aware of this!

My very good friend, also dated a younger german guy, Like yours, he didn't like to work, depended on her and lived off of her. See, germans collect a hefty unemplyment check, and some people simply choose not to work so they can live off the goverment. It's a shame, but it's true.

To continue with the story, they moved back here to the USA and he didn't want to work here either. They got married and he stayed at home while she worked. A few months after that, he started to seduce her next door neighbor!!!!! He soon moved in with the next door neighbor and lived offf of her too!
The neighboors parents gave her an utlimatum that she had to dump him or else they will not continue to pay for her college. So the guy ended up living with this guy on a nother state (no comment). My friend ended up paying for his ticket back to Germany and divorced him. What a nightmare.

I wonder if it's the same guy. Be careful and do not fall for thsi type of parasites and gigolos that just want to live a confortable life. He ain't no good and you know it.

Good luck

Trust your instincts on this. He's able to work but not interested in working. Why would you want to put up with a man like that? Are you willing to put up with supporting him for the rest of your life? Are you willing to deal with the resentment?

You can do so much better. Dump him and move on.

get rid of this deadbeat. he has no desire to work?? who cares if its low paying or high paying, tell him to get a job or get the hell out. seems liek a dead beat loser regardless of what country he is from.