Only for people in love???!!!?

Hello everyone. I love u guys.
my BF and I been together for 11 month now. and its great. I love him to death and his too. I fell like IAm so lucky that I have him. his A wonderful guy. he been there for me in my hard times. and my good times. he dose his best to protect and respect and love me. 3 months a go. I lost my Car and my job. it was my fault and I learn from it. I didn't have anybody to turn too but him. he stand there and get my car and money I never asked him for anything. I used to find money in my puers. all the time. he always say. Iam ganna do my best to love u and give anything u need. making u happy is my duty. I never had anybody who take care of me and love like him. except ,parents. and him. I fell so good when I am with him. my family doesn't believe in dating before marriage. or sex or any relationship before marriage. and because my culture. I cant married who came from a different country. I am from north Africa and his from south Asia we bouth share the same religon. and belive . but my family dosent like it. I dont really care. IAm 21 and his 23 and bouth of our familys dosent support us with money or anything. in fact I support my family and he sepurrt his family too> Why is the colture make it hard for people to live. I love him so mush and ther nothing in thsi world can change my mind. I can see him with the next 30 years. u know whats that mean. LOVE??!!!
thank u guy I and hope u get the idea

Have you spoken to a religious leader about this? I mean one that you can trust. Perhaps not one in the same church/temple/worship center that you go to; the chances of word getting back to your parents is too great. If you honestly love him, your families will just eventually have to accept it. My fiance and I have a great relationship; my parents are very accepting. His are not, mostly due to their fear. That may be what your parents are reacting out of. They may naturally distrust his intentions, and he (and you) shouldn't take it personally. Remember that if you decide to marry him, you may be destroying a relationship with your family. If you truly believe that the relationship is worth that, and you are a mature woman who has considered all the angles, then follow your heart.

if you truely love eachother, allah will find a way to keep your relashionship together and remain together forever. talk to your family and tell them its not about where they are from but its about WHO they are. tell them true love comes from the HEART and not where they are from. tell them this guy is one in a billion and you wouldnt be as happy if you were forced to break it up. allah meant for this to happen... dont give up. good luck.