I need to know if his gay? (im a female by the way)?

IVE BEEN WORKING WITH THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 3 YEARS NOW AT MY CURRENT JOB, NOT TOO LONG AGO HE CONFESSED TO ME THAT HE LIKES ME!!!! I FIND HIM CUTE TOO..... BUT THERE R SOME THINGS IM NOT TOO SURE OFF.....EXAMPLE: HE DRESSES,GROOMS,SMELLS GOOD ETC... (BUT THATS PART OF THE JOB) HE COOKS,IRONS,ETC....(HE SAYS THAT HE HAS HAD TO LEARN TO DO STUFF LIKE THAT B/C HE'S LIVED BY HIMSELF SINCE HE WAS 19 YEARS OLD....) WHEN HIS NOT AT WORK HE DRESSES LIKE WHAT I WOULD THINK TO BE GAY (BUT THEN AGAIN HIS NOT FROM THE SAME PLACE IM FROM (ORLANDO) HIS FROM ARGENTINA....& I GUESS OVER THERE THEY HAVE THERE OWN STYLE.....WELL I NEED TO KNOW IF HE IS GAY? I MEAN HE TELLS ME STORIES OF THE EX GIRLFRIENDS HIS HAD, HE KISSED ME VERY PASSIONATELY THE OTHER DAY AND.......(HIS WEE-WEE GOT PRETTY HAPPY WHEN WE KISSED TOO....)HE COOKED FOR ME THE OTHER DAY......BUT AM A LITTLE CONFUSED....I MEAM HE DOESNT HAVE GAY GESTURES....DO U THINK IM JUST A COVER UP? WHAT SCARED ME IS THAT HE OWNS A G-STRING!!!!

Argentine men are different then what you are used to. Learn from this and enjoy. Don't assume anything from his actions unless you find convoincing evidence. Play safe and unless you find love notes from "Bruce" on his phone ... all is good!

He's not gay.

You seem to be confused about what makes a man gay. It is if he is sexually attracted to another man.

It has nothing to do with how he dresses or whether or not he cooks or irons.

He obviously is attracted to you, so don't worry about it unless you look like a man.

is bisexual a possibility? before i would just say he is in touch with his feminine side, but the Gstring, hmmm. i think he might be bi.

he dont got to be gay just because he does all that

wee-wee?
I don't think most gay guys make out with girls.

ask him to invite his friends over, not from work. that might help.

if he kissed you and his"wee wee" got stiff, you shouldn't have to ask us. the fact that he has cooked for you, is clean, dresses nicely, and you have a problem with all that. the g-string is popular in south america. it's something they do. get over it.

ok.....he's from Argentina....although male g-strings aren't "hot" here, over there that shows confidence. if everything is great and that is the only thing making you suspicious, then rejoice that you found a great man! would you rather have a boxer wearing man that you have to treat like a kid cuz he can't do anything for himself? i wouldn't....good luck!

No, he's not gay. Some guys are really like that. Tell you what, my husband owns a concealer and a press powder. And he doesn't want to wear a loose shirt.

If that's gayish, my husband is much more of a gay type than yours..

He's not gay, he is what you would call metro sexual. likes to dress well, smells good, keeps himself clean, and self reliant. meaning don't have to call mommy to do everything. that is hard to find in a man. but the g-string would bother me a lil. but maybe that is just his thing, some guys just don't like to be swinging all over the place. but he sounds like a good guy. I would hang on to him.

I think I know exactly where you are coming from because I was in a similar situation. And my answer to you is that I don't think he's gay. Why? Because after dating a guy from a culture different from my own, I realized that as Americans we have some macho stereotypes of what a man is which are *not* universal. I used to think that about this guy I'm dating until I got to know him better and now there's not doubt in my mind. But because of what I used to think was 'manly' I thought he might be gay or bi. Today I have redefined my definition of a 'man.'

Of course you can never be sure if he's *bi* unless you ask him (and you might offend him!) but what's wrong with you, girl? He sounds great! Well groomed, cooks, cleans, probably a sexy Spanish accent, passionate kisser- what more could a girl ask for?! The g-string's a little weird but hey, he just might be kinky. I say go for it (use protection anyway but esp. if you suspect he may be bi) and when you know him a little better, slip in a question about if he ever thought about dating guys before and see what he says. In the meantime you'll be enjoying yourself with a good catch and if you thought he was gay- he definitely sounds heterosexual with you! ;-)