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Should a man allow his wife to travel overnight on her job and stay at a hotel with with a male coworker? |
Should a man allow his wife to travel overnight on her job and stay at a hotel with with a male coworker? Uhm... no he should not allow her to stay at a hotel with another man.. not because he's controlling, but because you cannot trust people. Even if he trusts his wife, he cannot know how her coworker is. What if he puts something in her drink and then rapes her? What if he attacks her and threatens her while in the room? You never know. Do you really think a man is going to have clean thoughts when he's in a hotel room alone with another woman? I think not. A man should not 'allow' his wife to do or not do anything. You are her husband, not father. If you trust her, it should not be an issue. Also, staying in the same hotel is not a big deal. If it was in the same room, that would be a little different. Keep in mind, that if she wanted to sneak behind your back, she could have just not told you about the male coworker situation. The fact that you know all of the details is good indication that nothing sneaky is going on. In the same room? NO! And neither should a wife allow her husband to! This is ridiculous! I wouldn't let my wife, and she wouldn't let me!!! UPDATE: If you mean in a different room that's a little different, but I don't think we would let each other do that either! I think it is stupid that people are playing the feminist card here. This is not about that. This is about spouses being respectful of one another's wishes or concerns. Modified 1 year ago It is not always a good idea to put people in a vulnerable situation. When two people work closely together and spend a lot of time together (40hrs per week) nature can take it's course and attraction can "happen". I think IF the husband is allowed to by his wife's job, he should pay his own way, accompany his wife and be company for her. Support her and be there (in the room) after her long hard day. If they will not allow you to go and share her room, then you have to do what's best for your family financially and respect your wife's profession and TRUST her. I was in this situation and I asked my husband to come with me (my job allows it)because I knew that he would be able to (with his work schedule) and I knew that my job allows that. This I think made my husband feel good that I wanted him to come and took away any concerns or insecurities he may otherwise have felt. Not in the same room. A man does not allow his wife to do anything, she is grown woman who has free will and she does not need his permission. If they have a good marriage that includes trust the decision is hers to make and if she chooses to do so then there is nothing wrong with it. As long as they have separate rooms. |
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