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What does it mean that my bf doesn't want to stay with me in my hotel when I visit him? Dating LD NY-Tokyo |
Dating LD since moved to NY in Sep. He said he would marry me once he got a decent job, but I fear he has changed towards me during our separation. Going back to Tokyo to visit him next week. He says coming to the airport costs too much money and time, so he thinks he won't come. I begged him to see me the day I arrive. He was very worried and nervous that that would lead to him staying with me in the hotel, something he clearly does not want to do. His tone of voice, worry and attempt to avoid this situation indicated this. Yet when I forced the question, he says he still wants to go out with me, that it is not the case that he cant break up with me out of kindness, and he would not rather be friends. Had to push for him to have lunch with me, he says he wants to limit expenditure, he is saving up for something expensive and highclass. He will tell me what it is when he sees me, but I must not tell anyone about it. Whats going on and what should I do? Been intimate in past with him. Do I hear church bells!?!? Think about it, expensive, high-class, saving money, working as hard as possible to make money. He's going to propose to you!! He doesn't want to go to the hotel because he doesn't want to be intimate. Though you've both done that before, he now feels that he wants the wedding night to feel as much like the first time as possible, and how better than with a long break from intimacy beforehand? He told you not to tell anyone, because they would tell you this same thing. I shouldn't tell you, except that his actions are unintentionally endangering the relationship. Stick with him, you'll see, things are about to change, drastically! Congratulations!! This just means that he thinks you are a nuissance and that he has other thoughts about you which are not good. Start hunting for someone else!!! You already know the answer. The facts are all there. He's moved on and you need to as well. |
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