Dating long distance since I moved to NY in September. He said he would marry me once he got a decent job, but I fear he has changed towards me during our separation. Going back to Tokyo to visit him next week. He says coming to the airport costs too much money and time, and he will see me soon again the next day, so he thinks he won't come. I begged him to see me the day I arrive, which is Wed, and he stressed that he prefers to see me on Fri. He could compromise and see me Thurs...but I said I really want to see him the day I arrive. He was very worried and nervous that that would lead to him staying with me in the hotel, something he clearly does not want to do. His tone of voice, worry and attempt to avoid this situation indicated this. Yet when I forced the question, he says he still wants to go out with me, that it is not the case that he cant break up with me out of kindness, and he would not rather be friends. Whats going on and what should I do? Been intimate in past with him.
it means u should move on, since he already did. sorry I have to break the news but blame your chick sh!t friend whom couldnt have the balls to tell u himself.
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Never a good sign when the significant other doesn't want to stay with you when you visit.... let it go... he already has...
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