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What does it mean that my bf doesn't want to stay with me in my hotel when I visit him? Dating LD NY-Tokyo |
Been dating long distance since I moved to NY in September. He said he would marry me once he got a decent job, but I fear he has changed towards me during our separation. I'm going back to Tokyo to visit him next week. He says coming to the airport costs too much money and time, and he will see me soon again the next day, so he thinks he won't come. I begged him to see me the day I arrive, which is Wed, and he stressed that he prefers to see me on Fri. He could compromise and see me Thurs...but I said I really want to see him the day I arrive. He was very worried and nervous that that would lead to him staying with me in the hotel, something he clearly does not want to do. His tone of voice, worry and attempt to avoid this situation indicated this. Yet when I forced the question, he says he still wants to go out with me, that it is not the case that he cant break up with me out of kindness, and he would not rather be friends. Whats going on and what should I do? Been intimate in past I think it sounds a bit dodgy to me and not right. He should be excited about seeing you and be as keen as you are to get together, if i were you i wouldnt waste my time going out there, get out there and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them, lifes too short to waste time on fake love go find true love, i can guarantee it will be worth it. He is going out with someone else, it sounds like that anyway... Stay home, Thats what he want's, Its really not worth your time and money for a guy who is NOT SURE he wants to be together.. He is probbly not ready for it and getting intimate wih you. Is this your 1st time doing this w/ him??? He is probbly so so so so so so nervous beause he likes u so much! how sure you are that your bf doesnt have any relationship when you are not in his arms? maybe i guess he had another woman now but he dont even know how to tell you maybe he doesnt want to hurt you? try to talk to him heart to heart and you will know whats really matters....after you heard his side, accept the fact....that's life!!!! are you sure he isnt seeing someone else? thats a long trip and a lot of $$ u will be spending to see somebody who isnt acting like he wants to see you. If you had a stronge relationship, he would be there to meet you. If he had a good reason not to be there he wouldnt be giving lame excuses. If the ticket is refundable I would not go and let him know that if he would like you to come see him then he had best plan on being there to meet you and not wait til you've been in the country for 2 days. |
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