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EVERYONE LOVES HIM....my parents, my friends, my relatives....He is wonderful, caring, trustworthy, hot, great job, gorgeous house, genuine, would be a great father.....I have always been in drama filled relationships and FINALLY decided to get out of it after 7 years and this has been my 1st non drama relationship. My ex still carries his torch in my head for some reason. I guess its cause our relationship ended with me in infatuation over a jerk and it has been very troublesome for me to forget about him every day. I took a 6 month break and then met my new boyfriend. We clicked. We both wanted to get married to each other someday, have kids together, and live in our "now" house FOREVER. One day my feelings clicked off. Honestly, I woke up one morning after we were dating for 3 months and had come to the conlusion that I didnt love him anymore. Since then I went on some anti-anxiety meds and my feelings have been up and down. Some days are awful while some are great. When we are out of town I dont think about anything and have a good time with him, BUT when we are at home I get all anxious and feel like I dont love him anymore...I dont know why but the smallest things he does annoy me and the next day everything could be fine. I just dont feel as romantic as I used to with him. I still enjoy having sex with him and spending time with him but feel as though something is missing or I dont love him anymore? I dont trust myself with this relationship. Please help, I hate hearing that I am not in love with him anymore...For some reason people re-assuring my love for him makes me feel better?!?!? Are there any suggestions and/or any way I can make this work? I want him to be the father of my children and my husband and be happy with it! The most perfect man in the entire world may not be perfect for you and you cannot nessecarily "make" it work. You could just learn to deal with it and live however. Odds are that finding this Mr. Right swept you off of your feet because your past relationships have been so hard. Of course your family ad friends love him... they know what you've been through in the past and they are more than happy that someone is out there who is so perfect, even if they aren't perfect for you. If you found this man, you will find another. You've gotten over the part of relationships that helps you find out what you want in a man. Now, you need to discover the part that not only makes them perfect, but perfect for you and your needs. Don't settle for Mr. Right now when Mr. Right forever is out there waiting for you. Good luck honey, find your man and may God bless you to be happy forever!! :) it's the guilt inside you, of how it ended with your ex boyfriend You should seek counseling to gather your thoughts. Only you can determine if you are ready to settle down with this guy or move on. if you question that you have fallen out of love with this guy, reconsider forever. Maybe this honey moon effect has worn off im sure you guys have not lived together for long. What do you want? You are addicted to the high of the drama. You are not ready for a new relationship at this time. It sounds like it is your life that you don't love, not him....are you unhappy with your work life or living situation or something else maybe...I don't mean to over simplify this but the good ones don't come along every day,,,,think about what else it might be that is bugging you...it doesn't really sound like it is him...good luck. If you are used to drama, although you don't like it, you may, for some reason need it....becasue it is familiar to you...only you can heal that... |
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