Am I mistaking the "comfort stage" of love to an end of love?

EVERYONE LOVES HIM....my parents, my friends, my relatives....He is wonderful, caring, trustworthy, hot, great job, gorgeous house, genuine, would be a great father.....I have always been in drama filled relationships and FINALLY decided to get out of it after 7 years and this has been my 1st non drama relationship

I took a 6 month break and then met him. We clicked. We both wanted to get married to each other someday, have kids together, and live in our "now" house FOREVER.

One day my feelings clicked off. Honestly, I woke up one morning after we were dating for 3 months and had come to the conlusion that I didnt love him anymore. Since then I went on some anti-anxiety meds and my feelings have been up and down. When we are out of town I dont think about anything and have a good time with him, BUT when we are at home I get all anxious and feel like I dont love him anymore...I dont know why but the smallest things he does annoy me and the next day everything could be fine. I just dont feel as romantic as I used to with him. I still enjoy having sex with him and spending time with him but feel as though something is missing or I dont love him anymore? Please help, I hate hearing that I am not in love with him anymore...For some reason people re-assuring my love for him makes me feel better?!?!?

You have only been dating for 3 months! maybe it wasn't Love you felt with him in the first place, maybe it was just Lust! Big difference there. So maybe you never loved him in the first place. Lust is very temporary and last only for a short time. Then you start seeing though it and things change. You enjoy having sex with him not because you love him, it's the Lust talking! Decide if you really, truly loved him in the first place. If you do, than great, maybe the "honeymoon" stage is just over. If you don't Love him, then move on. Life is too short and it's time to reevaluate what the meaning of Love is to you. Don't confuse it with Lust.

What was that old saying - find someone you are comfortable with and can talk to. 'Cause when you are old that is all you will be able to do together.

Why the anxiety around home? What is going on there that when you were out of town wasn't? Are there outside influences that you are listening to that say 'it can't be love because of...'? You have to call that shot - no one else - not family, friends, anyone. Can you get away from the noise in your head and look at him. Do you still feel a rush? Can he still take your breath away? Are there reasons you find little things annoying - grasping at straws? What is the deeper reason or is it the noise of others? There is nothing wrong with a relationship that is not DRAMA! Since this is the first relationship without drama, are you reacting because you aren't sure how to handle it and need to feel your way through it.

Just thoughts. This could be the love - soul mate - you've looked to find. But you are the one to decide that - take time & don't over analysis it. Love happens just like life and has it ups and downs.
been down this road before