Question about being desperate in relationships, details below?

my boyfriend masterbates, wouldn't he like it better if "i" gave him a hand job instead? cause weve been going out for over a month now, and i thought he'd ask me to give him a hand job to him by now instead of him doing it to himself........

Id suggest a BJ instead.

It sounds to me like you want to give him one, so just tell him that.
yeah why not.. its a great idea
dont do anything your not ready to do. don't let him pressure you into anything. alot of people wait for over three months before getting physical. some people don't get physical until marraige. go at your own pace, and find someone who can go your pace as well.
I don't think your handjob can help the relationship.

But I am sure he doesn't mind letting you give him a handjob.
Every relationship is different. Perhaps this guy respects you more than others did and is willing to wait to you get to know each other more and build a little trust. Or he is embarrassed and maybe hasn't had much experience with girls. Let it ride, see what happens, enjoy the relationship, don't feel desperate, don't do that to yourself.
Hmm...well sex is always an option. If you're not ready though, its understandable guys not being into hand jobs. No guy really wants them. They can do it themselves, and frankly better. They jus know what they like I guess. Go down on him its like a million times better for them.