Would you consider a guy a gay one if he made a move to sleep beside another guy?

Im a discreet gay guy. I just moved in to share a condo unit with a professional guy. I always thought that he is straight, but just recently, he made a move to sleep beside me in bed (we have separate beds). He has done this three nights already. He sleeps beside me on his underwear while im half naked. And alaways asks a favor from me to give him a massage.

This gave me a clue that he is a gay guy too. So for two nights, I try to hug him. And he never refuses. he keeps on sleeping beside me in bed.

And just last night, to strengthen my assumptions, i gave him a hand job. And he never refused. In fact, he relly came. If you are a straight guy, would you allow another guy to give you a hand job?

Do you think that he鈥檚 gay too? What should I do?

I say... Keep the fun up. So many "cool" perks about being gay is starting to fade. So if your friend is "bi curious" by all means, stir his curiosity slowly. Don't get "uber-gay" on him. Enjoy this little love affair... Its probably the safest thing you can do in 2007

Sounds gay to me. Or- he is very curious!
You go girl, blow this time and sure you got your perfect answer.
You may be a discreet gay guy but you belong to that part of the world called gay that is just totally out of touch with reality. Don't you know how to talk? What are you afraid of? You gave him some fun - he may still be totally disgusted by all things gay but here he has a willing partner to basically beat him off (homosexual sex, it's called). What is that all about? All this guy has to do is lay back and let you get your jollies by servicing him - another weirdo gay thing, I guess... honestly, ever think about it?