How can I give my partner mind-blowing sex??

Without doing anything absolutely extravagent or wearing mini shoes and suspenders. I mean just give him better sex, is there something I can do with my hands?
And also, not to cause offense or anything, how do you give a really good hand job???
Thanks!!

The dressing up thing is a good idea, by the way! All you have to do to give "mind blowing" sex is to listen to the way he responds to what you are doing. Give him a little strip tease or something. Try a new position. As for the hand job my only advice is don't squeeze too hard, and ask him to help show you so you will know what he likes! Good luck! Source(s): married 8 years

what's wrong with extravagance?
Well if it is limited to the hands then forget the mind blowing sex because your not doing anything that he can't and probably has done already. You might want to venture a little farther if your old enough and since your not experienced enough get some guidance from him
Well just do what feels good for the both of you ;) add a lil oral to the hand job
Hand job..lubricant and a steady motion. It is when you pause, he loses it. About the mind blowing sex...After a nice hot bubble bath, (this is a good time for the hand job...but don't go too far) Let him lay on the bed, get some lubricant and while you are handling him or BJ put your finder in his anus. That'll blow his... mind.
OK my hubby loves the way i do it he says its the best ever. I lick up and down i also suck his balls while i am giving him a hand job. Lots of wet is the best thing either that or dry it totally. Then pull his fore skin back and hold it down. then just rug the top head just over the ridge then to the tip and that's it but it has to be very dry .