Shud i go along with my bf? or take it slow...help?

ok so tonight my bf got really excited and was like..i dont wanna force u into anything blahblah. and i said i just dunno what to do. ive never felt so unsure. i wanted to make him happy, but i didnt wanna take things to fast. and he said if we're going to fast just tell me and i said no no, its ok. i told him i dnd twant him to be disapointed, and he said no, trust me. i mean..i dn what to do. and i was firm and said no below the waste and stuff and hes like ok. so that was good. but ..i know that the next time i see him, this will go farther. what do i do?? shud i just give him a hand job, or blo* job? i am DEFinatly not going below the waste, as i said. but i want to make him happy.what do i do???

Do what you feel is comfortable. If doing something sexual to/ for him is what's needed to keep him and you're not ready for that ... he's not ready for you. He said that it's no pressure but you feel pressured. This is a decision that you have to make for yourself ... but when you do ... think of yourself first - not him.

Do whatever you think you should do. This is your choice, not his.
until your ready to "go below the belt" just kiss and cuddle/hold him for a while, talk dirty to him-both of them get most guys excited, I commend you on hanging on to your virginity til your sure your ready to do it.

hope this helps you

Mitch
Launceston, Tas
Australia