Should you ask your partner if you can....?

give him a hand job/ ********? or should you just go for it? what do you think is better to do?

depends on your guy. Mine likes me to just go for it when ever I want to!!

Ask him what he would prefer and take it from there.

i would ask
do it
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i asked hubby and he said it would ruin the moment by asking.....especially in public
i say just go for it if you fell good doing it do it
Do it unexspectedly and slowly and make him feel good suck it also!
lol... if you are in an inappropriate place... lol I wouldn't do either. If you were alone... just kinda mention offhand that you wanna do something nice for him. and go for it. I dont know any guys (except really uptight religious people) that would have a problem with that. If he does.... give me a shout! I wont mind..... seriously.... lol