Fraternity Guys...?

I'm a fraternity guy and quite sick of hearing girls make comments about us, especially as a stereotype. Not ALL fraternity guys are the animal house type. Do we party hard and have a great time? Absolutely. But I for one, treat women like the princesses they want to be as well as treat everyone else with respect. It just frustrates me to no end when Im trying to get a professional job while in college with the federal government and I hear "They don't want those fraternity guy types who like to party." That is such a crock, I don't know what to say... People even accuse it of being a thing to "pay for friends." And anyone who is in the greek system knows that is a bunch of crap.

Anyone else have thoughts on this? Am I doomed forever because I joined a great fraternity and decided to live a little?

If yu had joined a fraternity that was known for its professionalism, rather than its partying, you would have bette chances.

Birds of a feather nest together. So you tell people youre in XXX fraternity, and its well known for being slackers, dumbaZZes, and party too much, etc- then thats the choice YOU made, because thats the image YOU wanted. Sorry. Thats just how it works.

IF you had joined a service fraternity, or one that is better known for its grades or athletics, then that would be what the employers think about...

You picked it though, sorry.