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My fiance has had 4 jobs in the last year.? |
I am a single mother of 3. I do not get any child support from my ex. I have been dating this guy for over a year now and he has asked me to marry him.. I said YES because I love him with all of my heart. He has 2 kids of his own which I have helped support. In the last year that we have been together he cant seem to hold down a job.. He has an education and all but cant hold one down. I Have helped support him thru each job loss because my mother passed away and left me with a little bit of money.. Well the money is gone, his daughter is living with us in MY house I might add and I am so frustrated with him.. He is looking everyday for a job and I know he is capable of finding one but damn... I feel like ever since we met I have been supporting him and I hate it... I have 3 kids of my own that I have to support. I have a full time job and I am trying to get thru the grief of losing my mother and brother in one year and I want someone to support me for a change.. Am i wrong? No, you're not wrong. Even though you guys aren't spouses yet, spouses are supposed to support each other, not just one spouse support the other (physically and emotionally). It sounds like he's going through a really hard time this past year. What are the reasons he loses these jobs? Fired? Laid off? If he can't keep a job because of something HE'S doing wrong, then that says something about his character. But if he loses these jobs through no fault of his own, then you just gotta stick through this with him. Through thick and thin...right? You should definately go after you ex for child support. J Leach! Brush him off! That's a bad sign. Don't continue seeing him. my sister was warned by her fiances pastor on what type of person he is and he told her that her fiance could not hold a job. and 2 yrs. later (married) he has yet to find one! he has had 6 different jobs and still likes to go out to eat and buy new clothes! with her money!....she also has a child from an ex who is a dead beat dad and wont pay child support! ( he is now locked up for that) It is the beginning of a cycle, and..... you are better off having the reassurance that you will be the sole provider for your family. Being a single Mom you CAN'T DEPEND ON NO ONE!!!!! the man of your dreams may be just that ........."a dream". You are right - but you choose wrong bf. Run as fast as you can away from this loser. He is no good for you. You are better off alone. Break off the engagement until you seem some money coming in on his part. |
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